nothingeverlost:

seekingidlewild:

dangerdonut:

being bisexual and having different feelings when ur attracted to guys than when u are to girls is so hard to explain bc being attracted to a guy is like “ah” and being attracted to a girl is like “oo” but that doesn’t make any sense to anyone but me

#this #it’s totally different #and one of the reasons i prefer to use bisexual not pansexual #because pan to me implies that gender isn’t relevant in attraction #and it is for me #it’s just not a limitation (via @defyaugury)

This is so me, and exactly the reason why I call myself bi, too. I’m not limiting myself to two genders, but I’m attracted to different genders in different ways. Of course, I deal with the added complexity of being on the ace spectrum, and so it’s more aesthetic and romantic attraction than sexual. Which is why I think it took me so long to realize I was bi, because I was just like “everyone is so beautiful and cool but I’m not sure I want to sleep with any of them?”

And this is a good way to shone why bi and pan are different. I don’t feel like this at all. Which is one reason why pan fits me.